Pakistani actor Sadia Faisal recently appeared on the FHM podcast, where she sparked controversy with her views on the rising divorce rates in Pakistan. She attributed the increase to women becoming more independent and career-oriented. Sadia emphasized that while societal norms are evolving, the core traditions of Pakistani culture remain significant. “I think women have become more intolerant. They are more career-oriented now,” she stated.
Sadia argued that women’s growing self-sufficiency has led to a decrease in tolerance levels, resulting in a lack of compromise within marriages. She believes this lack of compromise is a primary reason for the uptick in divorce rates. According to Sadia, financial independence can lead to an inflated sense of self, making it difficult for marriages to thrive. “You develop certain expectations when you’re independent and earning. You find a sense of security when you become self-sufficient, which is a good thing, but it can get to your head. When women earn more than men, their expectations increase. Thank God I have not changed like this,” she elaborated.
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Sadia expressed concern over the changing dynamics within marriages, stressing the importance of balance and the willingness to compromise for the longevity of a marital relationship. Her comments have sparked a broader conversation about the balance between traditional values and modern independence in Pakistani society.
The controversy follows an earlier one involving Sadia’s mother, veteran actor Saba Faisal, who made remarks about the importance of having sons. Saba asserted that sons bring a sense of relief and security for women, even when they are not physically present. She recounted how her sister, who used to say she was glad not to have sons, faced difficulties and depression after her husband’s passing and her daughters moved abroad. “She said she was depressed. Why? Because sons are always with you. Even when they are not with you, there is a sense of security that they are there for you,” Saba contended.
Saba’s remarks were swiftly condemned by fellow actor Hira Khan, who labeled them as audacious and foolish on her Instagram Story, sparking a public exchange between the two actors. Sadia defended her mother, calling out Khan for her disrespectful remarks towards a senior artist. “Everyone has a right to speak whatever he/she wants! And I’m stunned by your words! Have some respect for senior artists in your own industry. Thank you,” Sadia responded.
These discussions highlight the ongoing debate in Pakistan about the evolving roles of women, the importance of traditional values, and the impact of financial independence on marital relationships.
